I am very happy to join this forum to discuss further more on relevant to health and fitness.. I am fitness and diet freak.. and love to work out for 1 hour.. Hopes I will enjoy my stay here..Thanks & LOL!!

Not sure what to put. Just want someone to teach me.

Hi there :smile: Welcome to my variation on the "introductions" theme :biggrin:

I'm 26, currently living with my partner of 5 years in Nottingham, UK, having recently moved back "oop North" from London. Looking forward very much to getting to know you all, and to exploring the forums. :thumb:

Hey everyone. :tongue:

I'm 17 and I'm very new to the LGBT community. I officially came out to myself a few months ago (although I think I've always known) but I'm not 'out'. I came out to a gay male friend just less than a month ago and my closest friend about 2 days ago. I haven't told my parents (eeep! :shocked:), but I probably won't for a while.

I'm just looking for a bit of support and advice aaaand that's pretty much it.:smile:

Hi everyone. I'm glad I found this forum. Everyone here seems very upbeat. I'm not sure why I'm posting, but I just want to write about my situation and see what others have to say.

I've never come to terms with my sexual identity. I think I'm transgendered. In my sexual fantasies, I'm always a woman. I've never felt a strong desire to have a sex change or to live as a woman, but I do like to dress in women's clothes. I did that fairly often when I was young, but not so much now.

I had sex with two girlfriends when I was young. Neither relationship lasted more than a few months. Since then, I've had very little sex and no romantic relationships. A few times over the past 20 years, I've sought casual sex with men. I don't really have feelings for men, but when I'm with them I can pretend I'm female, and that is very gratifying.

More and more as I get older, I feel a very strong, very frustrating longing for women. I'm not sure what I want from them. I don't feel the urge to kiss them or have sex with them. Nevertheless, I feel a powerful visceral need. I want a wife and a family, and I want to grow old with an intimate companion. However, because I'm so sexually effeminate, I know I can never have a normal relationship with a woman. I feel like a eunuch. I've given up on the possibility of ever having a romantic partner.

Sometimes, women flirt with me. I like that because it lets me dream that things could be different. However, flirting often turns awkward when a woman takes a real interest in me and sends stronger signals. I never know what to do then.

I'm in that situation now. A beautiful younger woman has been making advances. I'm scheduled to play co-ed beach volleyball with her tomorrow. She has invited me to go out for drinks afterward. If I were following my traditional playbook, I'd spurn her quietly, leaving her feeling hurt and me feeling despicable.

I'm trying to find a better solution this time. I'm considering coming out to her, although I don't know how to do that. I'm rehearsing what I might say: "I'm transgendered" or "I'm not the man you think I am". I'm very frightened at the prospect of uttering anything like that. Nevertheless, I've resolved to do something when I see her tomorrow. Wish me luck.


-TC

Hiya guys

I'm Paul, 25 living in South London.

I'm gay, duh, obviously. Like to party, party animal here! but also chilling out and realxing :biggrin:



Just wanted to say hi! :wink:

Hi guys and girls :biggrin:

I'm Holly, 19 from Glasgow.

I'm a wannabe novelist, and most of my books are for the GLBT audience. I'm qualified to be a freelance photographer, but finding work is so hard, so I've given up on that to follow my childhood dream of being an English teacher in Japan.

I spend way too much time on my PS3 - I think I've wasted half my life on Fallout 3 :Cry: :shocked:

I'll talk away to anyone, so say hi! ^_^

I have registered long time ago, but I had been so busy that I seldom come here, and then i even forgot my password =.= now finally I got my new password, and once again, hi there!!! :biggrin:

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 01-09-2010:

-golfie (born in 1962, Age: 48)


Happy Birthday!

Hi! I work for a brand new videochat and would like to introduce it through here: is it possible? Thank you, Jose

Hi Guys

So, I always thought that I was 100% straight, however, a few months ago I decided to watch some gay porn and got really turned on by it and enjoyed it, maybe even more than watching normal porn. After I had finished watching it I felt really embarrassed and disgusted with myself, even though I enjoyed it. Since then I have watchd more and more and started to really get into it. From there I have started dreaming and fantasising about geting with a man or group of males and this has really made me feel horny! After a while again though I feel disgusted about myself for having these thoughts, but then a week or so later I have the same things pop into my head. From this I have thought that I would like to experience something with a Man and have looked at some websites and was thinking of joining one to meet people and experience a range of sexual encounters. From looking at these websites my curiousity has grown because of what I have seen. For example I think that I would definitely try dressing up in womens underwear and clothes. Something that I would never have even considered before!

I have joined here to hopfully meet new people and to get some advice on my position. Has any one else experienced similar things, should I join a website to meet new people. I am also worried about getting with someone and catching something, although I guess as long as you are safe it is like getting with anyone, male or female.

Thanks

Hello everyone,

just joined this community. I am an Italian guy who has lived in several parts of the world, and recently moved to Seattle, WA. If you are planning to visit this wonderful city, just let me know and I will gladly take you around for a spin and show you the best gay venues here.
Ciao,
Cole

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 27-08-2010:

-WNevinJ72 (born in 1954, Age: 56)


Happy Birthday!

It's gonna be a great day. Have Fun

New to this, just signed up and saying Hello...

Hey everyone
Just here to make my introduction to the site. Hope you're all having a good day!

I will like to say hello to everyone in the house. I am uncommondeal and new in the forum.

Hi guys, I'm new here as well, so thought I'd follow suit and do an intro post. My name is Matt and I work with Imedeen. There seem to be loads of interesting conversations happening here so I'm looking forward to chatting with you all.

Matt

Just joined up and just wanted to say Hi to everyone. I'm gay and am 32 years old but look about 18 (don't know if that's good or bad !) Unfortunately i'm still in that closet but hopefully that will change soon. So that's me.. see you soon

Well I've just signed up to the site and thought I'd say hey guys! :D

I'm out of the closet and like visiting sites like this to get gay opinions on all things gay :P My username breakaway is after the Kelly Clarkson hit, it's one of my favourites.

Hope you're all good :D

Hello to everyone here - just joined so still finding my way around the site

Thought I would introduce myself as the newest member of the site, after a few failed relationships I couldn't work out where I was going wrong but then it became obvious to me, I have a strong attraction to men so I have decided the reason for the failures was because they were with women. I have joined this site as I am very nervous, a bit like the previous newbie as this is a big change in my life so please be gentle with me lol

I'm very nervous and excited to be joining you all. I am in a happy relationship with a woman but find myself strongly attracted to men on occasions. I don't know where i want to go with this but i feel compelled to explore my thoughts :redface:

How is everyone doing tonight?

hey! i've finally 'come out of the closet' and i'm looking for some fiesty men to get me started! http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pi...p?id=521223338 add me on facebook, or send me a private message and i'll give you further details on how to spice this little minx up!

Hi frnds,
Mary here. New to this site. please co-operate. Be careful about reading health books. You may die of a misprint. lolz............:wink:

Im the new boy
Still crouching very low in a dark closet

Sammie

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 29-07-2010:

-jayce (born in 1987, Age: 23)


Happy Birthday!

I joined a while ago but could never remember if I introduced myself so here goes... :redface:

I'm Alex, 21, currently living between the UK and mainland Europe. I'm gay and came out three years ago. I don't have much time for a social life and where I am is pretty backward about homosexuality, therefore I'm looking for other gay guys as friends in online and real life form.

Hugs all xxx

Hi All

Ex Soldier and finally out of the closet and must say it feels like a weight has be lifted off me. Open to express what i am with the ridicule from others.

I was having a look around the site, and I noticed blogs and groups. I'm a writer so I was interested in starting one/both. I can't see how to start a blog, and I do not have permission to create a group, so I'm pretty stuffed there. I have looked around for an FAQ but I can't seem to find one. Could someone point me in the right direction?

...I said hi. Having read some other posts, this looks like a friendly place to hang out :biggrin:

Hi, I am a straight online writer and I just wanted to pop in here to let all you guys and girls know a bit about the work I do. I write mostly religious articles and I have recently written an article that exposes the misinterpretation of the bible and how it relates to homosexuality. I am also a member of a page on Facebook called, "The Universal God Movement" We are fighting to allow everyone the freedom to have a relationship with God regardless of their sexual orientation.

http://relijournal.com/religion/god-and-homosexuality/

I look forward to meeting some great people here and if I can help any of you with anything feel free to give me a shout.

Ok it probably hasn't been approved yet. I don't really want to celebrate it being put up it is only of me and all that but I was wondering if you haven't uploaded any yourself, why not? This isn't a criticism just wondering why people haven't.

Hi, This is a big step for me. I have a particular issue to discuss. Probably best with older Bi or gay people. I suspect the issue is not unusual for married hetero men of my age.

Hoping for discrete, sensitive, genuine responses.

Ellorr, I'm new to the forum, just looking for general gay conversation if i can get it here? :)

Hi Im new to this forum and it looked interesting so i decided to join! :biggrin:

Wow, my mind has gone totally blank for the moment but still thought it was worth saying hi...

'HI!'

I'm 22 years old, gay and totally not out of the closet (cause for a very socially outgoing and interactive person I'm a total wuss!) and live in/around London.

I'll remain fairly anonymous for the time being, but be sure that I'll be taking part in many conversations/discussions round here in the future.

I hope make all of your acquaintances soon!

Wemyss

Hello everyone :3
My name is Megumi. I'm Jayce's housemate and I am currently staying with him in Brighton. I'm Japanese, but I grew up mostly in the USA, although I do speak Japanese.

I'm a lesbian. Most men tend to terrify me. Offline, that is...

So, anyway, I thought I'd make my own account on this forum. It seems nice.

Thank-you :3

I'm James, living in London :p This looks like an interesting forum so I decided to join. =)

Hi all!

I've already posted in a couple of other threads (as they were of interest) but just thought I'd say hi on here too. This is one of the friendliest and most 'serious' fora I've been to, so well done guys and proud to have become a member! :)

Cheers,
Jay

i would really like to get opinions from mature-minded people on this site. basically my concern is my sexuality ... i know you're probably thinking ''oh not another one'' ... but i am serious and i would like some help. thanks in advance to those who will provide some contructive input. all my life i have had an attraction to women but gradually over time i found myself having fantasies over men. the category of men i fantasize about are always the same - MATURE (30-50), STRONG, MUSCULAR, TALL, BIG D*CK etc ... i think you get the point. so my question is AM I GAY? nowadays i seldom have thoughts of having sex with ladies, but being a bottom for men who fit into the category above. i like watching straight porn but it is usually determined by the guy in the scene not the girl. i occasionally watch gay porn but prefer straight porn. usually on the street i'll look at women not guys but i tend to only have a small amount of guys i really like. example tom selleck, peter north (a porn star). WHY DO I LIKE MEN IN FANTASIES BUT IN REAL I SELDOM SEE GUYS WHO I'M ATTRACTED TO? i also only wish to perform bottom duties in my gay fantasies not top. all my life i had suffered obsessive compulsive disorder so i am not sure if that is some way related. i would appreciate all opinions as long as they are kept decent. THANK YOU ...

Hey guys im a noob here haha just here to meet some new friends :biggrin:

I find it so hard to navigate through them for the first few days haha. Oh well

My name's Coby, I'm from England, I'm 16 in a few months. I live in a flat with my two older half-brothers. I just moved here, it's pretty nice!

I've been part of the clubbing scene since I was 14; I live for nightlife. I go to gaybars a lot. I got tied up in the druglife pretty badly for a while but I'm edging away from it now, pretty successfully, and I haven't used since May!

I'm part of a few other gay forums too

That's all I have to say, really =) I hope it's nice here.

2 members are celebrating their birthday on 07-07-2010:

-gaylad83 (born in 1983, Age: 27)
-codecold (born in 1988, Age: 22)


Happy Birthday!

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Good eve,

Greetings from Spain. Miss the UK a bit so if you do not mind, I shall lavish my rich banter on you from time to time.

luv

T

Just wanted to say hi to everyone. I am from North America and intend to spend an indefinite amount of time, on business, in the U.K. soon. I am not in the prime of my youth
(early forties). Hope that's not to old for this site. I am not officially out at home so I generally keep a very low profile. Will post a picture soon but will be from shoulders down only to at least give you some idea what my bod looks like. :smile:

Hi,im joe and would like to meet some guys , wheres best place to start?

Well, today is the international gay pride day...so basically, happy pride day everyone :wink:

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 26-06-2010:

-lee 22 uk (born in 1987, Age: 23)


Happy Birthday!

Hi, my name is Paul, 28 years old and new to the site. I live in Tyne & Wear and work as a Tech Support agent. Just want to say hi to everyone and I hope to have the chance to chat to you all.

alright lads hows it going? im lee from essex im 22 nearly 23 getting old i no haha!! im bi probly more towards gay! if thats possible lol im str8 acting. im always up for a laugh like going out clubbing hanging with mates i go gym and play footie! im a bar supervisor! im kinda looking for new mates maybe more who knows :redface:

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 17-06-2010:

-pjbuk (Age: hidden or unknown)


Happy Birthday!

Hey folks, im James. 22. live in Stockport just south of manchester. Looking for a new place to chat with people of similar minds and interests.

Now ive been on many forums in the past and have done many intro threads, now i love welcome messages, but guys and gals, do something different for me.

ASK ME A QUESTION:>?:! any question you can think of no matter how random. its a good way to get to know me and for me to get to know you guys.

thanks
:tongue:

Hiya everyone

I am new to this site so i dont really know what i am doing :smile:

so if anybody has any advise on how to go about working with this website i am all ears
or if you want to chat thats good as well